Based on extensive reading from literature and collections by famous writers, Rieko Mwenyewe brings together key advice for readers hopefully enabling them to find solace in overcoming fear and achieve their desired goals for the Year 2024.

At the beginning of each new year many people consider making resolutions to change for the better. Of those who succeed in making resolutions many fail. But many fail before they give success a chance because of fear. Some are afraid of failure, others are afraid of success. Regardless of the source of the fear, it immobilizes too many and prevents them from achieving what they desire and are capable of.

There is no more sure way to fail than to never try. This year, do not let fear kill your hustle before you even get moving. Here are 14 ways to overcome fear and make this year the one where nothing holds you back.

1. Understand fear and embrace it.

Fear exists to keep us safe. It is not inherently bad or good but a tool we can use to make better decisions. Fear is not designed to keep us inactive, but to help us act in ways that generate the results we need and want. Embrace fear as instruction and let it inform your actions, but not control them.

2. Do not just do something, stand there!

We tend to admire people who are quick to action, but being deliberate, creating a plan, and pacing yourself are also actions. Many a successful undertaking has been threatened or ruined by haste alone. When fear strikes consider whether the correct action might be to analyze the options and make a wise, well thought out choice rather than jumping to what seems right in the heat of the moment.

3. Name the fear.

Sometimes merely stating what your fear is gives you the strength to deal with it. Say your fear out loud, write it down, or focus your mind on it. When you try to ignore your fear, it grows. When you face it, it shrinks.

4. Think long term.

If you are an entrepreneur, you may be afraid you will not make the next payroll. But what is your three month outlook, or the outlook for three years from now? Thinking about the long term will not fix your short term problem, but it can help you think about it more objectively and come up with the right solution.

5. Educate yourself.

We are afraid of nothing so much as the unknown. If your fear is based on a lack of information, then get the information or knowledge you need to examine the situation based on facts rather than speculation.

6. Prepare, practice, role play.

The long standing top fear in the United States is public speaking. In many surveys, death itself ranks in second place to standing in front of a group and opening your mouth. If your fear is related to your performance in a certain activity then prepare, practice, and role play. If you do not have that much time, Gallo says “I find that practicing a presentation a minimum of 10 times is ideal.”

7. Utilize peer pressure.

Have you ever done something scary, like jumping off a high bridge into a river below, only because you were with friends who were egging you on? Peer pressure, like fear itself, can be positive or negative depending on how it is wielded. Surround yourself with people who will push you to overcome the fears that are holding you back from what you want.

8. Visualize success.

Athletes may imagine the successful completion of a physical task thousands of times before achieving it. This mental mapping ensures that when the body moves, it is more likely to follow its pre-ordained path. The same practice will prepare you to succeed at whatever you are trying to achieve.

9. Gain a sense of proportion.

How big of a deal, really, is the thing you’re afraid of? We sometimes get so caught up in the success or failure of a particular quest that we lose sense of where it fits in with everything else we value. Ask yourself what is the worst that can happen? Sometimes the reality is bad, but often you might find that the fear itself is worse than whatever it is you’re afraid of happening.

10. Get help.

Whatever you are afraid of, is it something you have to do alone? Can you find a mentor or support group to help you through it? Athletes have coaches. Students have teachers. Sometimes friends, even if they have no expertise in the area you are struggling with, can provide the needed support to face your fear.

11. Follow others, find a recipe.

Are you doing something that has never been done, or can you follow the footsteps of someone else who has accomplished it before? Is there a formula for success? Has someone written a book on the topic, or can you tweak a formula from another field to meet your needs?

12. Have a positive attitude.

In Brian Tracy’s book ‘The Power of Self-Confidence: Become Unstoppable, Irresistible, and Unafraid in Every Area of Your Life’ he asks “What would you do differently if you were absolutely guaranteed of success in any undertaking?” Would you try more things? Would you keep working long after others would have given up? People who have positive attitudes are successful because they keep trying after others give up.

13. Be willing to pivot.

As the adage goes, “If at first you do not succeed, try, try again.” But there is also the saying “Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” If you are afraid to do something again because it did not work out the last time, figure out why it did not work, and try something different before you give up trying altogether.

14. Focus on others as your motivation.

There are things we would never do for ourselves that we would quickly and fearlessly do for others. Hyrum Smith, the co-founder of Franklin Covey, once asked a mother in his audience during a presentation if she would be willing to cross a standard metal “I beam” placed from the roof of one skyscraper to another. She said no, she would not. He asked her if she would do it for a million dollars, and added that now there was a bit of wind and some raindrops falling. She still would not. Then he told her to imagine he was holding her child over the edge of the opposite building, and if she was not there in 10 seconds he would drop the child. In this final scenario, the mother said that, yes, indeed she would cross the beam.

We, as humans, have an inherent selflessness when it’s attached to our expression of loyalty. Use that motivation; it burns brightly.